The most important thing to do when choosing crystals for yourself or another, is to follow your heart’s guidance. It’s easy to get caught up in the mind’s love of “maybe this, maybe that”, and that can often lead to confusion or frustration. The simplest thing to do is to take a deep breath, and either touch or tap your high heart center (located slightly above the center of your heart chakra). This will re-attune your attention into your heart, and you’ll find yourself able to listen with different ears.
Here are some examples of how the choice of a crystal can come to you. Guidance can come forward in a number of ways. These are in no particular order.
First, and always, ask the Divine to be with you, protect you, and guide you when you are choosing crystals. (more…)